You're wanting fast and instantaneous - and it does not happen that way. So sorry - it just doesn't when what needs to change are people's views and values in mass number. It is slow. I don't want some quick-mercurial fix. I was solid and permanent. Something that won't taper when the dopamine levels bottom out - something that's solid and won't cave when **** gets rough 50 years later.
That's just how it is - it would be nice to just snap fingers or have a few tough people make it all happen in short order but that is not reality.
I don't get why you don't see that for what it is. When you want something that's big you have to work your way up to it from the bottom - that's just HOW it is.