Oh my lord. It's just facebook. These people were/are absolutely nuts.
To address some of the posts:
1. I have been defriended by people I thought I was close to and I have defriended people who thought they were close to me...none of us (to my knowledge) took it very seriously. Hell, my aunt deleted me off her FB because she didn't like the language I used...no skin off my nose and now she won't feel awkward reading my posts. Getting bat**** insane over FB is just dumb.
2. I'd actually LOVE to meet up with some of my junior high/high school friends. Moving as much as I did I lost touch with a lot of great people I really cared about. If one of 'em found me on FB I'd be thrilled.
3. I almost wonder if this uncharged girl (the one who was defriended) shouldn't have some sort of evaluation done. Obviously she has the ability to threaten the lives of others through her father/family, so at the least I'd like to see her be evaluated.