My grandmother was offered an award from the state of Indiana when the governor was a man she despised; but she accepted the award because these things are not about politics - it's about respect for the office and our system.
Now, not attending a political rally for the office holder, that's just fine. That is how you show you disapprove of the office holder's politics.
There are time for politics and there are times to put politics aside as we are all Americans.
Those of you who are hockey fans, it's fine to still root for him, but very simply he placed politics before country.
Matthew 10:34Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.