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so it wasn't followed by her daughter just like a lot of other daughter's out there so.... abstinance only dosen't work.
Only because these families refuse to do what they should.....
1. She and her boyfriend should never have been allowed to be in her bedroom alone.
2. The moment she found out she was pregnant she should have been disowned until (at the very least) she and the boyfriend were married.
The problem with absitnance only is that it doesn't work if there are not consequences. I can guarantee you that the moment my parents found out I had gotten some girl pregnant without being married to her first, I would no longer have had a family or a home to go back to. Both of my brothers and I knew that. As did most of my cousins. The only person in my immediate family (first cousin) who hasn't done this in the right order is the one who was "daddy's little girl" and knew there wouldn't actually be any consequences to her actions. My second cousin who did it was forced to marry the baby's father.