We aren't charging them with a crime they didn't commit, and are you honestly arguing that these people would go to a young girl's house "just to hang out?" Are you telling me you believe their excuses?
What they did was inappropriate and socially unacceptable? Can you at least agree with that?
As far as what these guys are charged with, what are they charged with? Is Chris Hansen just humiliating them, or are they charged with a crime, and what's the crime?
In any case these males are acting on behavior that is unacceptable and potentially dangerous to other people in society. I am not being over emotional. The point is, if they are outed then that's better than not being outed, wouldn't you agree?
And what do you even suggest be done?