Apparently, you're the expert in human anatomy and sexuality. So you should tell us: if it has a penis is it a man or woman? Also, what do you care if 2 duds want to do it? Does it affect you? Since apparently, birth rates are the only reason for sexual relationships, what does that mean for infertile people? Should they be denied a meaningful relationship with a person? Since I'm an adoptive father, maybe you can tell me how I've ruined society. While you're at it, you can expound on why my children would be better off with no parents.
I'l let other people rip your "answers" to shreds. I'm through with you.
So....we come up with the terms...Partner, significant other, or in some cases....husband to a male, or wife to a female.
It may not be preschool ( I hope not)...but it IS common sense and logical thought...try it, it's refreshing.
As to your making me answer you how you have ruined the American society, I can only tell you this: I have no courage to advocate to others that your own kind of people have pushed forward the otherwise never seen prosperity of America.