this is incorrect. those who point out that it will increase stress aren't bigots - they are realistically appraising the results of introducing sexual and social tension into a group that needs to be tightly and intimately knit in order to function well.Those that believe that it will add stress and want to support that fact and would defend bigots that are stressed by gays make the same statement about themselves.
as a single example....I don't get stressed by straight people. Why would a straight person that isn't a bigot get stressed by gays?
post naked pictures of yourself on the internet. right here, right now. in your response to this post.
what? you don't want to do that?
why don't you want to expose yourself in front of a mixed audience? are you a bigot?