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And EVERYTHING is abuse. Quick! Call DHS!! I was seen taking my kids to McDonalds!...Oh dear! My kid is neglected!...he didn't wear his mittens to school today!
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I disagree this characterization of DHS as comprised of monsters out to steal children from adequate homes.
DHS exists to protect children, period.
They don't want your children, particularly; they've no place to put them.
They haven't even the resources to remove children who truly
do suffer from legitimate abuse and neglect; in most cases, they make some effort to improve the situation of such children by compelling the parents to attend parenting or anger management classes, or substance abuse support groups.
I had to restrain myself from saying "
token effort".
While their desire to help children and families is sincere, their resources are severely limited, and already stretched to breaking by abandoned children and children of incarcerated parents.
They have no desire, no desire at all, to take children away from parents who show any motivation whatsoever to keep them.
In my state, out of every 100 incidents of abuse reported to Child Protective Services, over 85% are investigated and dismissed.
In the remaining 15% of cases, the families are found to be "in need of services", such as housing, welfare, parenting classes, treatment for addiction, etc, and are put in contact with the appropriate agencies.
I wouldn't even want to try to estimate the number of children removed, permanently and against the parents' wishes, by CPS.
One in ten thousand, perhaps?
Do not demonize state social workers; they earn a pittance and work themselves into an early grave doing a stressful and dangerous job that is as unrewarding emotionally as it is financially.
They do it because they genuinely want to help children.
What you are saying is nothing more than an urban legend, and a dangerous one, at that.
I work closely with CPS, and share their goal of improving the lives of children as well as many of their frustrations at the seemingly endless obstacles to doing that.
The danger is abusive parents. The danger is not overzealous CPS workers.
State Child Protective agencies don't have the resources to be much of a threat to anyone, including abusive parents.
Children and their safety are not a very high priority in our country; if they were, we'd devote more state and federal funds to the agencies which oversee such matters.