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There are a lot of problems with your post, but I’m going to ignore most of them.
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Dont take the cowardly way out bro. Gonna dish it out, then back it up or keep it shut
I would like to see you point out a "lot" of problems with a post that asks a few questions about a REAL ISSUE.
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The ‘change’ in marriage isn’t the symptom of a problem. It is a reflection of the way in which our society is ordered. At one point marriage, was a formalized method of something that was naturally occurring, lifelong cohabitation. The reason that we are seeing less marriage is that the constraints which cause lifelong cohabitation are dissolving, and new constraints are being added. The decline is marriage is individual ADAPTATION to the new factors in society.
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Yes yes yes, this is all UNDERSTOOD already.
The question is WHY? Why are people doing this? Of course it is adaptation due to progressive ideas. But why are people doing this? What about having children and raising them within the confines of a STRUCTURED ENVIRONMENT (which is what children desire and NEED)?
A woman would rather get her career going, wait until she is 35 to have a baby, when the rate of Birth Defects rises dramatically, geta C-Section, hire a nanny or put them in day care so that she can go to yoga, etc. What the hell is wrong with the better educated Liberals that do this.
A man would rather do what? Party? Get laid? Hang out playing video games? Work on their careers? What is it? Wait wait wait and marry a younger woman when you are 40 and be 60 when your kids graduate high school, unable to play ball because you are almost old enough to retire.
Family Values is easy to attack when it messes up people's selfish desires. It is easy to overlook what is best for the kids.
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Society is an extension of human psychology, and therefore it will always be forced to adapt to the changes in the physical world
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This isn't psychological Darwinism. This is not a mandated change for survival. This is seflish people indulging themselves at the cost of a potential societal breakdown.
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Our current market and economy allows people to be more self reliant than in previous generations
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There you go. Self reliant is a PC way to say Selfish.
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Both people in a relationship now have careers, people are no longer economically limited to the extent that one person has to sacrifice that career.
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And now you justify it. People no longer have to sacrafice their
CAREER? Instead they sacrafice their
family and children.
why do they both have careers? There is no need. We create the world that we live in. People can do without many things.
To many people spend money that they dont have
To buy things that they dont want
to impress people that they dont like.
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and means that people don’t have to stay in dissatisfying relationships
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Why dont people understand who they are and that marraige is not a fairy tale. That people have issues. That they have issues. That it takes work. Too many people want the package and wont put in the work. They bail like chickens and whine and bitch about society. They justify actions of incompetent people that play the PC game. It is cyclical.
Most of the issues are due to Liberals and Liberal Policies. Not all are bad, by any means, but by not addressing the REAL issues, you are just playing the PC game and not really saying anything.