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Shiang's take on the debates: No knockout punches but Obama beat himself.

ya know, I actually agree with your analysis. Republicans can't get "over confident". Obama is very skilled, and knows how to get down in the trenches, I agree.

However, I am seeing something different. In 2008, Obama had no record he had to defend, now he does, and last night was a pretty shocking indicator that even Obama knows he can't defend his 4 year record very vigorously, or else he would have.

There's only one avenue for Obama to take, and that's attacking Romney. He can't defend his own record, so he will most likely go on a full on assault of Romney in the next debate.

Romney really diffused some of Obama's guns last night. How? By pointing out the one thing Obama should be able to brag about accomplishing (Obamacare), wasn't passed on a bi-partisan basis. So, Obama cannot talk about reaching across the isle. His crowning achievment was passed without a single Republican vote. Romney effectively disarmed Obama on the issue, and made himself look more Presidential in the process.

Your assessment is pretty good though, Republicans better not get cocky. Sometimes a wounded boxer is the most dangerous one. I just think Romney walloped Obama last night, and he didn't have to deploy his entire arsenal to do so. That's what the Obama campaign better watch out for, Romney still has half a dozen issues to take Obama to task on......

As strictly tactical analysis, Obama needs to totally abandon defending anything he's done. There is no such thing as good defense. As much as I don't like it, Obama tactically should go fully on the attack, playing all the special issues, race cards, gender cards and class warfare cards he's got - and he's got a lot of them. Sadly, they do work. Within decorum, he also should personally attack Romney on his 47% comment and that Romney is a heartless rich guy who likes to fire people.

It is very difficult for someone to just ignore when someone attacks them, but Obama should play no defense. He loses on defense. In the next debate, both candidates should hit the other with everything they got, indifferent to what the topic or question. "The best defense is a good offense." Both need to remember that.
 
He is crippled, but not because of the debate. He's crippled because his policies haven't been very effective. Did you read my post?

Obama doesn't have a defining issue he can trot out and say, "look what I've done, vote for me again".

I gave you examples. The one issue Obama should be able to taut (obamacare), half the country wants to repeal it, and as Romney pointed out most effectively, Obama got it passed without a single Republican vote. So, if Obama talks too much about Obamacare, it gives Romney the opportunity to remind the American people that half the country wants it repealed, and that Obama crammed it down their throats without a single Republican vote!

If Obama talks too much about spending, it gives Romney the opportunity to remind America that Obama promised he would cut the deficit in half in his first term, but instead gave us $6 Trillion in new debt.

If Obama talks too much about foreign policy, it gives Romney the opportunity to criticize Obama over his handling of Libya, and how Obama encouraged the Arab Spring which has led to the Muslim Brotherhood coming to power in Egypt. Along with all the other turmoil.

If Obama talks too much about job creation, it gives Romney an opportunity to remind America that fewer people are working today than when Obama took office.

If Obama talks the economy, it gives Romney to point out trepid GDP growth, unemployment still above 8%, and median incomes dropping $4300 under Obama's term.

LIke I said, Obama is hamstringed on so many issues. He doesn't know how to defend himself, because it comes across as foolish to say the economy is better now than it was 4 years ago. It's foolish to say Obama's foreign policy of "leading from behind" is working. It's foolish to say you have a stellar job creation record, because we all know the real numbers. It's foolish to say that you support oil drilling, when public land drilling is down 50% under your term. It's foolish to brag about Obamacare when you know that half the country wants it repealed. It's foolish to talk about Medicare, because you stripped $716 Billion out of it.

Romney has Obama over a barrell on so many issues. We'll see if Romney has that killer instinct and really takes Obama to task the way he needs to......

Personally, I think most people don't vote for President. I think they vote against who they least like.

Obama can't hope to win "I've been a good president." But he may well be able to win that Romney is a rich heartless man who wants to control women, hates Latinos, and doesn't give a damn about the poor, minorities, and sick because he's just a Wall Street corporate raider type.

Since that is what was working for Obama, I'm suprised he deviated from that last night. Obama wanted to be likeable, allowing his surrogates to continue the personae attacks against Romney, and that doesn't work in a debate format.
 
As strictly tactical analysis, Obama needs to totally abandon defending anything he's done. There is no such thing as good defense. As much as I don't like it, Obama tactically should go fully on the attack, playing all the special issues, race cards, gender cards and class warfare cards he's got - and he's got a lot of them. Sadly, they do work. Within decorum, he also should personally attack Romney on his 47% comment and that Romney is a heartless rich guy who likes to fire people.

It is very difficult for someone to just ignore when someone attacks them, but Obama should play no defense. He loses on defense. In the next debate, both candidates should hit the other with everything they got, indifferent to what the topic or question. "The best defense is a good offense." Both need to remember that.

Oh, I think Romney fully remembers and understands that. He played offense the entire night. He was so effective in fact, that Obama was on his heels all night.

Just remember the point I made: Romney bested him decisively, and he didn't have to deploy his entire arsenal to do so. He's still got half a dozen issues to take Obama to task on that didn't even come up in this first debate. Issues like Obama's mandates on the Catholic Church, issues like Obama's regulations that are driving up the price of food. Issues like flip flopping on gay marriage. Issues like Libya, Egypt, and Iran. Issues like predicting unemployment would be 5.5% by this time. Issues like net neutrality.

There's a bunch Romney can use.
 
Before I thought republicans were sore losers, now it's evident they're even worse as winners... no class.
 
he's crippled..... Obama lost his swagger... its OVER... Obama was reduced from a deity to a fraud in 1.5 hours..

Romney knocked the fairy dust off the Kenyan Fraud..

you called it
Obama learned nothing from chicago political infighting
he will now just roll over and give up
thanks for the laugh
 
Oh, I think Romney fully remembers and understands that. He played offense the entire night. He was so effective in fact, that Obama was on his heels all night.

Just remember the point I made: Romney bested him decisively, and he didn't have to deploy his entire arsenal to do so. He's still got half a dozen issues to take Obama to task on that didn't even come up in this first debate. Issues like Obama's mandates on the Catholic Church, issues like Obama's regulations that are driving up the price of food. Issues like flip flopping on gay marriage. Issues like Libya, Egypt, and Iran. Issues like predicting unemployment would be 5.5% by this time. Issues like net neutrality.

There's a bunch Romney can use.

I see most those as wild card dangerous topics for Romney. Romney should stick to pounding Obama on the economy and government issues, avoiding ALL social issues like the plague. Specifically I think Romney should avoid gay marriage and birth control topics. Those are NOT solid winning points for Romney among undecided at all.

Obama really blew it on Libya, giving Romney good points in the foreign policy debate.
 
Personally, I think most people don't vote for President. I think they vote against who they least like.

Obama can't hope to win "I've been a good president." But he may well be able to win that Romney is a rich heartless man who wants to control women, hates Latinos, and doesn't give a damn about the poor, minorities, and sick because he's just a Wall Street corporate raider type.

Since that is what was working for Obama, I'm suprised he deviated from that last night. Obama wanted to be likeable, allowing his surrogates to continue the personae attacks against Romney, and that doesn't work in a debate format.

Yes, you're right, it doesn't work. Wanna know why? Because now you've got that guy standing in front of you, ready to challenge you directly. Obama uses those tactics when he knows he won't have to answer for them.

Notice the difference. Everything Romney has been campaigning on against Obama, he brings up to Obama's face. He brought up how the number of food stamp users have skyrocketed under Obama. He brought up his deficit spending. He brought up Obamacare. He brought up so many things that he uses against Obama out on the campaign trail.

But look at Obama. He didn't bring up any "war on women". He didn't bring up "Republicans just want dirtier air and water". He didn't bring up "Republicans wanna push your grannie over a cliff". He didn't bring up Romney's taxes. He didn't bring up Mormonism.

Liberals are the world's worst about side swiping their opponents, then acting all nice when that opponent finally gets an opportunity to face them in a debate. They don't bring THOSE issues up in person, because they know they're about to get slapped down. Romney is so effective in correcting liberal lies. He was effective in the primaries, and Obama knows that. Case and point, Romney corrected Obama so effectively on Obama's repeated claim that Romney's tax plan would "cut taxes on the rich", that Obama finally said, "ok". Romney got Obama to agree that his plan doesn't cut taxes on the rich.

That's what I mean. Face to face, in person, liberals lose debates a lot. Why? Because they cant repeat the same lies they've been telling for months out on the trail, because the candidate is right there to correct them!
 
Shiang made a pretty good analysis. I am not pro-romney, but I think the moderator also gave Romney a bit more leasure in the debates. He may have been a bit biased, not intentionally, but Romney did say that he liked what the moderator was doing at PBS :p.
 
I see most those as wild card dangerous topics for Romney. Romney should stick to pounding Obama on the economy and government issues, avoiding ALL social issues like the plague. Specifically I think Romney should avoid gay marriage and birth control topics. Those are NOT solid winning points for Romney among undecided at all.

Obama really blew it on Libya, giving Romney good points in the foreign policy debate.

I think Romney can handle Obama just fine in a debate on social issues. Besides, you KNOW it's going to be brought up, so Romney might as well play offense on THOSE issues too.

For instance, birth control. If Obama attacks Romney on birth control, Romney has an opportunity to remind America that it's actually Obama's record that is radical, and remind them how Obama voted against a version of a "born alive infant protection act" while an Illinois State Senator......4 times! Also an opportunity to remind people of Obama's disrespect for Religious freedom by forcing the Catholic Church to violate their conscience and go against their doctrines.

Gay marriage wont be a huge issue, because Obama flip flopped on that AFTER he was forced to because of Joe Biden outing him in an interview.

Any way you slice it, if Romney really pays close attention, there isn't a SINGLE issue Obama should be able to out debate him on......
 
Shiang made a pretty good analysis. I am not pro-romney, but I think the moderator also gave Romney a bit more leasure in the debates. He may have been a bit biased, not intentionally, but Romney did say that he liked what the moderator was doing at PBS :p.

Obama lost because his record is indefensible and was on display for the first time in four years.
 
you called it
Obama learned nothing from chicago political infighting
he will now just roll over and give up
thanks for the laugh

again Chris Mathews says the term "Chicago" is racist...

Obama will be crushed next debate... but the media will not repeat that he lost ..

Obama is a scumbag loser...

Lets face it you are fan of "Obamaprompter"... but sadly Obama is on his own, which is much like Justin Bieber without lip synching..

PS: my post went up 6 times value from its cost from when I wrote it 27 minutes ago
 
Shiang made a pretty good analysis. I am not pro-romney, but I think the moderator also gave Romney a bit more leasure in the debates. He may have been a bit biased, not intentionally, but Romney did say that he liked what the moderator was doing at PBS :p.

No the moderator, Jim Lehrer, is a renown moderator for presidential debates and I thought was very fair and asked decent questions. They both broke some rules and went over time, Romney just did it a lot more often and did come off a little immature (always wanting the last word when it's suppose to alternate), but he made good arguments and presented himself well so I'll let that slide.
 
again Chris Mathews says the term "Chicago" is racist...

Obama will be crushed next debate... but the media will not repeat that he lost ..

Obama is a scumbag loser...

Lets face it you are fan of "Obamaprompter"... but sadly Obama is on his own, which is much like Justin Bieber without lip synching..

PS: my post went up 6 times value from its cost from when I wrote it 27 minutes ago

which means it still has zero worth
 
Obama lost because his record is indefensible and was on display for the first time in four years.

His record is perfectly defensible and strong he just didn't defend them. I see in Obama someone who's done a good, or at least decent, job but doesn't think he did a good job himself. He couldn't defend himself because something for some reason made him disappointed in himself.

Read what I wrote in the OP and see how those statements would've came off strong and put pressure back on Romney. Obama also almost never attacked Romney. He didn't attack him for what he did at Bain Capital. He didn't attack him for the 47% remark.

It's funny before the debate everyone said Obama might come off as Arrogant and that's his biggest liability. I think the exact opposite happened, he didn't come out with enough confidence and just wasn't himself.
 
His record is perfectly defensible and strong he just didn't defend them. I see in Obama someone who's done a good, or at least decent, job but doesn't think he did a good job himself. He couldn't defend himself because something for some reason made him disappointed in himself.

Read what I wrote in the OP and see how those statements would've came off strong and put pressure back on Romney. Obama also almost never attacked Romney. He didn't attack him for what he did at Bain Capital. He didn't attack him for the 47% remark.

It's funny before the debate everyone said Obama might come off as Arrogant and that's his biggest liability. I think the exact opposite happened, he didn't come out with enough confidence and just wasn't himself.

What exactly is defensible about the Obama record, one that I have posted over and over. Please help straighten me out.

Obama was smart enough to know not to bring up the 47% issue because he knew that message was out of context and he prefers having people like you still believe that Romney attacks the 47% in this country. Everything last night from Romney showed true leadership and the fact that he will work hard to bring people together, something Obama has never done. Obama never had a leadership position and thus has no idea how to lead. He always expected his charming personality and teleprompter rhetoric to carry the day. The Obama fraud ran out last night.
 
His record is perfectly defensible and strong he just didn't defend them. I see in Obama someone who's done a good, or at least decent, job but doesn't think he did a good job himself. He couldn't defend himself because something for some reason made him disappointed in himself.

Read what I wrote in the OP and see how those statements would've came off strong and put pressure back on Romney. Obama also almost never attacked Romney. He didn't attack him for what he did at Bain Capital. He didn't attack him for the 47% remark.

It's funny before the debate everyone said Obama might come off as Arrogant and that's his biggest liability. I think the exact opposite happened, he didn't come out with enough confidence and just wasn't himself.

I cant even take your post seriously...

like Mitt said Food Stamps UP... Gas Prices UP.. tax burden UP..no Jobs.. the fear of the GWB tax cuts going away.. Obamacare disaster..

thats winning?...wow...

shall I go on?
 
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I think Romney can handle Obama just fine in a debate on social issues. Besides, you KNOW it's going to be brought up, so Romney might as well play offense on THOSE issues too.

For instance, birth control. If Obama attacks Romney on birth control, Romney has an opportunity to remind America that it's actually Obama's record that is radical, and remind them how Obama voted against a version of a "born alive infant protection act" while an Illinois State Senator......4 times! Also an opportunity to remind people of Obama's disrespect for Religious freedom by forcing the Catholic Church to violate their conscience and go against their doctrines.

Gay marriage wont be a huge issue, because Obama flip flopped on that AFTER he was forced to because of Joe Biden outing him in an interview.

Any way you slice it, if Romney really pays close attention, there isn't a SINGLE issue Obama should be able to out debate him on......

I fully disagree. Most voters, like most people on the forum, are very partisan and neatly fall into the column on Republican stances on every issues or Democratic stances on every issue. But partisans are now irrelevant. It is independents, swing voters and undecided that will call this election.

I am NOT a partisan. Was INTENSELY anti Republican until a few months ago due to Republican stances on social issues. I like conventional and traditional Christians generally very much - married even to a very "churchy" conventional protestant. But I truly despise the religious rightwing, like I do ALL religious zealots wanting to tell others all they can't do because their God says so, almost as much as she despises fundamentalist zealots.

I am militantly pro-choice, fully support gay marriage, and think it is crap that corporations with a Catholic CEO should have a cost advantage over corporations with a Baptist or anthiest CEO. Law equally MUST apply to ALL corporations - period, no exceptions. Churches can do whatever the hell they want. For-Profit-Corporations equally comply with law. Even if owned by a religious organization.

However, I tired of the race-baiting by Obama, I think he is a racist in seeing people foremost by their race, and the extreme demands for political correctness Democrats now are even putting into criminal and civil laws are an intolerable afront to freedom and free speech at best.

I am oddly Hawkish on foreign policy, believing it more important our president is feared than liked, believe in all-in- or-all-out (our troops should never be another country's cops) if putting our military in other countries, and were I president I'd probably "accidentally" on rare occasion send a cruise missile loaded with napalm into a crowd chanting death to Americans. That way at least they would have something to really bitch about. However, Obama did FINALLY get us out of Iraq (a war Bush totally screwed up) and appears to be getting us out (in a dunderhead way) of Afghanistan. However Obama SUCKS! on how he had handled Libya - before and now - and is acting like a weak-ass whimp. It'd probably only be weeks before I would have bombs falling like rain on Iran because I do believe they want and will cause another Jewish holocaust and worse if allowed nukes. (I admit I should never be president.)

I like that Obama is more compassionate in my opinion towards the poor, weak and defenseless among we-the-people. But I don't think Obama's intellectual zippy pinheads have a clue about economics - and think Obama mostly is a shill for the super rich - domestically and internationally - more than Romney would because Romney is already super rich and wouldn't have to kiss rich people's ass - plus more understands how they do get around taxes in real terms. So I continue to favor Romney.

In short, I'm all over the board of what party I "identify with" and social issues cut Democratic for me - and I think a lot of other people. Economics and foreign policy MOSTLY breaks Republican. The sum total adds up to my voting Republican - in part because I do NOT think Romney is radical religious rightwing.

I understand that Obama has to mouth for the far left and that Romney has to for the far right. BUT if I believed as President that Romney was going to bow down to the pro-lifers, anti-gay righters, and religious zealots - I well could go back to Obama. Ultimately, I will obviously make my final decision for certain the instant I vote. Until then, I am persuadable and if you saw my messages until months ago RAGING at Republicans you'd understand I can change my mind - ie "independent" voter.

It is social issues that can kill Romney and, in my opinion, is why he is/was slightly behind in the polls. If Romney starts chatting religious right wing social issues like a zealot, women will defeat him along with my vote.
 
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I fully disagree. Most voters, like most people on the forum, are very partisan and neatly fall into the column on Republican stances on every issues or Democratic stances on every issue. But partisans are now irrelevant. It is independents, swing voters and undecided that will call this election.

I am NOT a partisan. Was INTENSELY anti Republican until a few months ago due to Republican stances on social issues. I like conventional and traditional Christians generally very much - married even to a very "churchy" conventional protestant. But I truly despise the religious rightwing, like I do ALL religious zealots wanting to tell others all they can't do because their God says so, almost as much as she despises fundamentalist zealots.

I am militantly pro-choice, fully support gay marriage, and think it is crap that corporations with a Catholic CEO should have a cost advantage over corporations with a Baptist or anthiest CEO. Law equally MUST apply to ALL corporations - period, no exceptions. Churches can do whatever the hell they want. Corporations equally comply with law.

However, I tired of the race-baiting by Obama, I think he is a racist in seeing people foremost by their race, and the extreme demands for political correctness Democrats now are even putting into criminal and civil laws.

I am oddly Hawkish on foreign policy, believing it more important our president is feared than liked, believe in all-in- or-all-out (our troops should never be another country's cops) if putting our military in other countries, and were I president I'd probably "accidentally" on rare occasion send a cruise missile loaded with napalm into a crowd chanting death to Americans. That way a least they would have something to really bitch about. However, Obama did FINALLY get us out of Iraq (a war Bush totally screwed up) and appears to be getting us out (in a dunderhead way) out of Afghanistan. However Obama SUCKS! on how he had handled Libya - before and now - and is acting like a weak-ass whimp.

I don't think Obama's intellectual zippy pinheads have a clue about economics - but I like his compassion for the weak and poor - and think Obama mostly is a shill for the super rich - domestically and internationally - more than Romney would because Romney is already super rich and wouldn't have to kiss rich people's ass - plus more understands how they do get around taxes in real terms. So I continue to favor Romney.

In short, I'm all over the board of what party I "identify with" and social issues cut Democratic for me - and I think a lot of other people. Economics and foreign policy MOSTLY breaks Republican. The sum total adds up to my voting Republican - in part because I do NOT think Romney is radical religious rightwing.

I understand that Obama has to mouth for the far left and that Romney has to for the far right. BUT if I believed as President that Romney was going to bow down to the pro-lifers, anti-gay righters, and religious zealots - I well could go back to Obama. Ultimately, I will obviously make my final decision for certain the instant I vote.

It is social issues that can kill Romney and, in my opinion, is why he is/was slightly behind in the polls. If Romney starts chatting right wing social issues, women will defeat him.

Obama is your guy... Mitts not for you..
 
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I fully disagree. Most voters, like most people on the forum, are very partisan and neatly fall into the column on Republican stances on every issues or Democratic stances on every issue. But partisans are now irrelevant. It is independents, swing voters and undecided that will call this election.

I am NOT a partisan. Was INTENSELY anti Republican until a few months ago due to Republican stances on social issues. I like conventional and traditional Christians generally very much - married even to a very "churchy" conventional protestant. But I truly despise the religious rightwing, like I do ALL religious zealots wanting to tell others all they can't do because their God says so, almost as much as she despises fundamentalist zealots.

I am militantly pro-choice, fully support gay marriage, and think it is crap that corporations with a Catholic CEO should have a cost advantage over corporations with a Baptist or anthiest CEO. Law equally MUST apply to ALL corporations - period, no exceptions. Churches can do whatever the hell they want. For-Profit-Corporations equally comply with law. Even if owned by a religious organization.

However, I tired of the race-baiting by Obama, I think he is a racist in seeing people foremost by their race, and the extreme demands for political correctness Democrats now are even putting into criminal and civil laws are an intolerable afront to freedom and free speech at best.

I am oddly Hawkish on foreign policy, believing it more important our president is feared than liked, believe in all-in- or-all-out (our troops should never be another country's cops) if putting our military in other countries, and were I president I'd probably "accidentally" on rare occasion send a cruise missile loaded with napalm into a crowd chanting death to Americans. That way at least they would have something to really bitch about. However, Obama did FINALLY get us out of Iraq (a war Bush totally screwed up) and appears to be getting us out (in a dunderhead way) of Afghanistan. However Obama SUCKS! on how he had handled Libya - before and now - and is acting like a weak-ass whimp. It'd probably only be weeks before I would have bombs falling like rain on Iran because I do believe they want and will cause another Jewish holocaust and worse if allowed nukes. (I admit I should never be president.)

I like that Obama is more compassionate in my opinion towards the poor, weak and defenseless among we-the-people. But I don't think Obama's intellectual zippy pinheads have a clue about economics - and think Obama mostly is a shill for the super rich - domestically and internationally - more than Romney would because Romney is already super rich and wouldn't have to kiss rich people's ass - plus more understands how they do get around taxes in real terms. So I continue to favor Romney.

In short, I'm all over the board of what party I "identify with" and social issues cut Democratic for me - and I think a lot of other people. Economics and foreign policy MOSTLY breaks Republican. The sum total adds up to my voting Republican - in part because I do NOT think Romney is radical religious rightwing.

I understand that Obama has to mouth for the far left and that Romney has to for the far right. BUT if I believed as President that Romney was going to bow down to the pro-lifers, anti-gay righters, and religious zealots - I well could go back to Obama. Ultimately, I will obviously make my final decision for certain the instant I vote. Until then, I am persuadable and if you saw my messages until months ago RAGING at Republicans you'd understand I can change my mind - ie "independent" voter.

It is social issues that can kill Romney and, in my opinion, is why he is/was slightly behind in the polls. If Romney starts chatting religious right wing social issues like a zealot, women will defeat him along with my vote.

Hey, at least you're honest about where you come out.

Here's my thing, and it may shock your pants off. I too dislike "fundamentalist" Christians. I am very much a Christian, and believe my faith to be more important than my politics. Here's my take: Fundamentalist Protestants DO come across as demanding hypocrites. I believe many of them DO want to impose their "moral code" onto society. And while they may be right in principle, their approach is "off putting" to many people.

Christ never forced anyone to do anything, believe a certain way, pray a certain way, worship a certain way. However, Jesus DID hold the truth. As a Christian, I believe it's important to share Christ's message with ALL people, not just political allis.

On social issues, I also believe that there are universal truths in this universe. Those truths trump secular laws IMO. For example, our Founding Fathers also believed this, and it's apparent in our Constitution, when they said that our "inalienable rights" come to us, not from government, but from our "Creator". Rights like the right to life. This directly relates to abortion. Every single human being, or potential human being, is extended the "right" to live. That right isn't given to humanity by any government, it's given to humanity by our Creator. Belief and faith has nothing to do with it. Not all of the Founding Fathers believed the same things, but they all had the wisdom to understand that there are UNIVERSAL truths in our universe. Life being one of them.

On a secular level, I believe homosexuals should be afforded every single "secular" right there is available. Rights like legal guardianship, inheritance regulations, property ownership, transferment of property rights, ability to cover one another on health insurance plans, and the right to live together, file taxes together, etc. These are all "secular" rights. My contention is in the definition of such a union. You may ardently disagree, but I can offer you a very logical and sound explanation on why you cannot classify homosexual partnerships as "marriage".

"Marriage", as we know and practice it today within our society, is not a creation of Government. Meaning, government did not give society "marriage". The Church did. Therefore, the government has NO authority to define what "marriage" is. The government DOES have the authority to grant "secular" rights, or rights like I listed above. But they do not have the authority to define "marriage". Now, if the government wants to recognize "civil unions", or "domestic partnerships", great, let them classify them as such. Because by sheer definition, homosexuals can't "marry". By approaching this issue from the angle I'm offering, you appease BOTH sides of the debate. You no longer "secularly" discriminate against homosexual couples, and you have defended the sacred institution of "marriage" at the same time.

That's the kind of reaching across the isle that we need. Should homosexuals not be allowed to file taxes jointly? No, they should be. Pertaining to "secular" rights, they should be able to do all those things as a couple. But the ability to file taxes jointly, or cover one another on a health insurance plan, isn't what constitutes "marriage". I'll go further and state as a matter of fact, "marriage" is also NOT defined simply as "two people who love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together". That's also NOT marriage.

When you get into a deeper conversation with most conservatives, they agree with what I just told you. By and large, Conservatives dont really want to discriminate against anyone on a secular level. What they want to do is find a solution that grants "equal protection under the law" (remember, the "law" is secular as well), while maintaining the sanctity of a very important institution; marriage. Can BOTH be accomplished? Certainly, and I just explained how.

Personally, I believe too many fundamentalist Protestants are legalists. Christ wasn't a "legalist". He taught compassion, mercy, forgiveness, and most importantly, love. I take that as instruction to have compassion, forgiveness, mercy, and love for homosexuals. That doesn't mean I accept their lifestyle, or agree with it. It simply means, they too are human beings who deserve compassion, forgiveness, mercy, and love. Will they be judged? Sure, who won't be? Do I believe they are sinners? Yes, but who isn't? Too many fundamentalist Protestants have a hard time seperating their "secular ideals" with their "spiritual beliefs". A secular society can accomodate everyone, and we can do that without trampling on the majority of American's "faith" or "spiritual beliefs".

How you debate this issue is what makes the difference. I'm not a biggot, nor am I a homophobe. I won't say that I have gay friends, because I don't. I won't say I'm any better than them, because I'm not. My goal is to point out that there is a difference between "secular rights" and "universal rights". Gay marriage is a secular issue, a societal issue. But it's not "marriage" by sheer definition. We can accomodate BOTH sides rather easily IMO.

Romney is Mormon, and while I'm fairly learned on Mormonism, I won't pretend to speak for him. The thing Christians need to remember, is sometimes Christ's message contradicts with our political ideology and philosophy, whether you're liberal or conservative. Obama's philosophy isn't anymore gracious towards the poor than Romney's. Look at Romney's charitable giving for instance.

Women who support Obama is kind of mind blowing to me. I truly don't understand how a species, who was created to be a "mother", could ever actually support abortion. Honestly. That is a different type of issue from gay marriage. Here, we are talking about life. We are literally talking about the propagation of the human being. Whether you define it as a fetus, a lump of cells, a baby, a zigote, whatever....we all have the intellectual capacity of understanding what THAT is inside a woman's womb. We know in our hearts what resides inside a woman's womb. We all know that truly, it IS more than just a clump of cells. We all know, that if nurtured, in 9 months, another living, breathing, human being will gracefully enter this world. To willfully, and knowingly destroy that is evil IMO. But what does the government do about it? Tough question.
 
Hey, at least you're honest about where you come out.

Here's my thing, and it may shock your pants off. I too dislike "fundamentalist" Christians. I am very much a Christian, and believe my faith to be more important than my politics. Here's my take: Fundamentalist Protestants DO come across as demanding hypocrites. I believe many of them DO want to impose their "moral code" onto society. And while they may be right in principle, their approach is "off putting" to many people.

Christ never forced anyone to do anything, believe a certain way, pray a certain way, worship a certain way. However, Jesus DID hold the truth. As a Christian, I believe it's important to share Christ's message with ALL people, not just political allis.

On social issues, I also believe that there are universal truths in this universe. Those truths trump secular laws IMO. For example, our Founding Fathers also believed this, and it's apparent in our Constitution, when they said that our "inalienable rights" come to us, not from government, but from our "Creator". Rights like the right to life. This directly relates to abortion. Every single human being, or potential human being, is extended the "right" to live. That right isn't given to humanity by any government, it's given to humanity by our Creator. Belief and faith has nothing to do with it. Not all of the Founding Fathers believed the same things, but they all had the wisdom to understand that there are UNIVERSAL truths in our universe. Life being one of them.

On a secular level, I believe homosexuals should be afforded every single "secular" right there is available. Rights like legal guardianship, inheritance regulations, property ownership, transferment of property rights, ability to cover one another on health insurance plans, and the right to live together, file taxes together, etc. These are all "secular" rights. My contention is in the definition of such a union. You may ardently disagree, but I can offer you a very logical and sound explanation on why you cannot classify homosexual partnerships as "marriage".

"Marriage", as we know and practice it today within our society, is not a creation of Government. Meaning, government did not give society "marriage". The Church did. Therefore, the government has NO authority to define what "marriage" is. The government DOES have the authority to grant "secular" rights, or rights like I listed above. But they do not have the authority to define "marriage". Now, if the government wants to recognize "civil unions", or "domestic partnerships", great, let them classify them as such. Because by sheer definition, homosexuals can't "marry". By approaching this issue from the angle I'm offering, you appease BOTH sides of the debate. You no longer "secularly" discriminate against homosexual couples, and you have defended the sacred institution of "marriage" at the same time.

That's the kind of reaching across the isle that we need. Should homosexuals not be allowed to file taxes jointly? No, they should be. Pertaining to "secular" rights, they should be able to do all those things as a couple. But the ability to file taxes jointly, or cover one another on a health insurance plan, isn't what constitutes "marriage". I'll go further and state as a matter of fact, "marriage" is also NOT defined simply as "two people who love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together". That's also NOT marriage.

When you get into a deeper conversation with most conservatives, they agree with what I just told you. By and large, Conservatives dont really want to discriminate against anyone on a secular level. What they want to do is find a solution that grants "equal protection under the law" (remember, the "law" is secular as well), while maintaining the sanctity of a very important institution; marriage. Can BOTH be accomplished? Certainly, and I just explained how.

Personally, I believe too many fundamentalist Protestants are legalists. Christ wasn't a "legalist". He taught compassion, mercy, forgiveness, and most importantly, love. I take that as instruction to have compassion, forgiveness, mercy, and love for homosexuals. That doesn't mean I accept their lifestyle, or agree with it. It simply means, they too are human beings who deserve compassion, forgiveness, mercy, and love. Will they be judged? Sure, who won't be? Do I believe they are sinners? Yes, but who isn't? Too many fundamentalist Protestants have a hard time seperating their "secular ideals" with their "spiritual beliefs". A secular society can accomodate everyone, and we can do that without trampling on the majority of American's "faith" or "spiritual beliefs".

How you debate this issue is what makes the difference. I'm not a biggot, nor am I a homophobe. I won't say that I have gay friends, because I don't. I won't say I'm any better than them, because I'm not. My goal is to point out that there is a difference between "secular rights" and "universal rights". Gay marriage is a secular issue, a societal issue. But it's not "marriage" by sheer definition. We can accomodate BOTH sides rather easily IMO.

Romney is Mormon, and while I'm fairly learned on Mormonism, I won't pretend to speak for him. The thing Christians need to remember, is sometimes Christ's message contradicts with our political ideology and philosophy, whether you're liberal or conservative. Obama's philosophy isn't anymore gracious towards the poor than Romney's. Look at Romney's charitable giving for instance.

Women who support Obama is kind of mind blowing to me. I truly don't understand how a species, who was created to be a "mother", could ever actually support abortion. Honestly. That is a different type of issue from gay marriage. Here, we are talking about life. We are literally talking about the propagation of the human being. Whether you define it as a fetus, a lump of cells, a baby, a zigote, whatever....we all have the intellectual capacity of understanding what THAT is inside a woman's womb. We know in our hearts what resides inside a woman's womb. We all know that truly, it IS more than just a clump of cells. We all know, that if nurtured, in 9 months, another living, breathing, human being will gracefully enter this world. To willfully, and knowingly destroy that is evil IMO. But what does the government do about it? Tough question.

Nice message and appreciate your effort with it.

I'm going to bypass debating abortion
however, there is an abortion board with about 1,000,000 messages and I finally tired of going round and round. Our home/location is also a shelter for women - including minors - on occasion backed up by a blanket court order. Some of those are seeking our shelter due to intense pressure and threats by others trying to force her to abortion or not abort - either way against her wishes or that she has not decided yet.

I will, however, only give personal life perspective. I am the adoptive father of two children. One was "conceived" by an exceptionally violent rape. The woman, a virgin, was "pro-life" but saw no reason to explain herself nor tell anyone what her intentions were. She struggled internally of course.

Her silence mobilized pro-lifers, her being the most well known popular teen in town and a known very Christian person. Her refusing to declare she was having the child - thus disallowing making her some cover-girl for their crusade, sent them into a frenzie. It became so intense, so raiding on her life, it was spinning out of control - literally protestors at her home and even trying to force their way in. At one point, she grabbed a 30 round 12 gauge shotgun, loaded it with bean bags (which they didn't know) and ran out opening fire on them screaming GO AWAY! GO AWAY! as she seemingly was killing them all and they running for their lives not knowing people were being knocked down by bean bags and not 00 buck shot.

What so outraged her was that they wanted to TAKE AWAY all her rights of decision and join forces with the rapist (who likely will never get out of prison being caught) to force her to give up all her power like he did and let them take it away from her giving to themselves. And she was also truly outraged at their declaring her child was the child of rape in materials - a truly terrible harm to the child and to her - that none of this was their business or decision.

So while some would think she is the poster teen for pro-life as was softly pro-life before this, I know of NO ONE who MORE despises pro-life and is pro-choice than she is. She doesn't mind a person disagreeing with her, but if the person becomes aggressive at all she becomes intensely openly hostile and threatening. No child ever had a finer mother than her.

What leads to it, telling a woman "I have power to make you have that baby whether you want to or not" infuriates many woman and understand why.

Of all the spiritual, biological etc issues? Those are endlessly argued and put simply, I think it is the woman's decision. Maybe if she aborts she's going to hell or maybe a "murderer" or maybe not. But until I'm able to go thru pregnancy and labor I think it is here decision. However, on many things I am a government minimalist.

Yes, I do oppose "partial birth" abortion and no I do not agree with the stand Obama did/didn't take. But I also am not a single-issue voter. Anything this comment just leads to the 10 trillion words and slogans of the abortion debate. I also believe it impossible for government to stop abortions, only make it criminally punishable.

Of the word "marriage" and gay unions?


I will concede that historically the word "marriage" meant a man and a woman (or a man and women as polygamy is very old historically.)

Yet, "all men are created equal" really did mean just mean males and more specifically only white men. In this country, in our Bill of Rights, "men" meant men who are not slaves. Yet that word has evolved to also include women and African-Americans. Thus, the almost ageless word "men" now means men and women. Society didn't collaspe because of it.

Personally, I don't think government should ever have gotten into the "marriage" business and should get out of it. Maybe the government should or should not get into the "civil union" business, but not "marriage" because "marriage" has such a diverse set of meanings even among heterosexual couples. If people wanted a "marriage" ceremony or "marriage license," they should obtain it outside of government (church or whatever.)

Here is why gays oppose you position. "Marriage" is NOT just a secular word. It also is a non-secular word. Many if not most people put "God" into the word "Marriage." Thus they argue how can the government in marriage licenses (also sold for a fee and thus "taxation"), declare they can not have spirituality in the government recognition of their "union," while heterosexual couples can? To many people, that is the government saying that while they can have equal legal rights, the government declares God does not approve.

Personally, I'm not all that fired up over gays battling for the government to recognize they may institutionally use the word "marriage." I do know many, many gays and radical gay activists can be extremely annoying and even ordered to get out of our house - including by real legitimate (and reasonable) gay activists.

Society evolves. Interracial marriages were illegal or refused including by government officials are recently as within the last decade. "Man" meant only men or only white men far longer than it became gender neutral.

To you, this "marriage word" is an ideological and philosphical question about others. But to gay couples, it is not an abstraction about "them," but about themselves. Its like telling blacks to go sit at the back of the bus. The bus still gets them going where they are going identical to the people in the front seats, costs no more and none are denied a bus ride. Rather, it is about one group declaring they have special rights, higher status, or special words only they get to have - making some rationalization for that special right only they get to have.

Your argument would be maybe more persuasive if you were debating on behalf of a right or word that you would be losing, rather than debating how people "like you" have a special right other people can't have and a special "word" people not like you can't, because only people like you have always had that word.

Only if you think gay unions/marriages harm society can I see why your really care if gay couples may use the word marriage too.

And here's a curious twist. I also know bisexuals - and they see homosexuals and heterosexuals as identical. Both exclude half the population who they can fall in love with - and that only they are the true non-prejudiced ones. Curious, huh?

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Romney just did it a lot more often and did come off a little immature

Sorry, the reality has already been posted, in total time, Obama got much more talking time. Don't believe those left wing talking heads...
 
Sorry, but you can write a novel and it won't change the outcome of the debate, the Obama record is indefensible and most thinking individuals understand that. It is the Obama record that will make Obama a one term President. Aside from the facts presented last night, the American people could have turned off the sound, looked at the screen, and see who was Presidential. Then read the transcript and find out who had the substance.

The Obamabots are going to spin this as being one debate. That might be the only true statement an Obamabot has ever made however this debate was a defining debate, a true leader vs an incompetent empty suit.

Here's the "indefensible record"

Policies take a year to two to take effect so judge Obama by the change in trend from 2010 to 2011

US GDP:

Nominal GDP went up about 10% from under 14 Trillion to over 15 Trillion

"Real" GDP (inflation adjusted) went from 12.8 to 13.5 Trillion

Keep in mind we were nearly headed into a depression 4 years ago


Unemployment:

over 10% to 7.8% - US Bureau of Labor Statistics

http://www.google.com/publicdata/ex...im_y=seasonality:S&dl=en&hl=en&q=unemployment


Employment:

See the drop in 2008 and 2009 and see the recovery from 2010.

10% increase in employment - US Bureau of Labor Statistics

http://data.bls.gov/cgi-bin/surveymost?bls
http://data.bls.gov/pdq/SurveyOutputServlet


Debt:

Reduction in Deficit spending every year from when Obama took office.

Look at inflation adjusted deficit spending

Obama inherited a 1.5 trillion deficit in 2009, down to 1.3 Trillion in 2011.

We actually pay LESS in interest, not just in % but nominal, than we did four years ago

http://www.davemanuel.com/history-of-deficits-and-surpluses-in-the-united-states.php


Stocks:

Dow Jones: 6.5k to 13.5k http://stockcharts.com/freecharts/historical/djia2000.html
Nasdaq: 1.3k- to 3.1k+ http://stockcharts.com/freecharts/historical/nasdaq1978.html
S&P: 700- to 1.4k+ http://stockcharts.com/freecharts/historical/nasdaq1978.html

Every stock more than doubled


Health Care:

Ok here's the key things that Obamacare really does:
1. It requires insurance companies to spend 85% of their revenue on actual health care costs.
2. It shifts the focus from ER and specialists to primary care (family doctors), focusing on prevention to increase efficiency and cut cost.
3. It expands coverage from 21 to 26 for dependants, so college students are covered through their parents.
4. By 2018 "Cadillac" insurance, extremely expensive (27.5k+ family, 10.2k+ individual) insurance that have no co-pay, gets a 40% tax. - Sorry Romney free foot massage at John Hopkins went up 40%.

Don't take my word for it just ask all your doctors what they think of Obamacare.


Foreign relations have improved

We are no longer at odds with France and Germany
China has adjusted it's currency from 8:1 to 6:1
Hostilities with Russia has subsided
Osama Bin Laden is dead.


Romney on the other hand does have an indefensible record, especially his private sector experience at Bain which he likes to brag about.

Skipping all the smaller companies he crashed. Here's 3 big ones

Staples: Romney was not CEO Bain was
Domino's: Cut cost if ingredients to increase short term revenue while ruining company reputation
Sealy: Company was moved from Cleveland Ohio, where the company was located and profited for more than 80 years, to North Carolina to cut cost (and the quality of the mattresses)
Toys R' Us: tell me if you find one

See the pattern? Cut costs, cash in on profit, drive companies to the ground? Want him doing that to this country too? Not on my watch. Bain capital is not about growing a business it's about how best to stuff the pockets of executives and it's stockholders.


Don't ever tell me again I don't back up statements with facts.
 
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Sorry, the reality has already been posted, in total time, Obama got much more talking time. Don't believe those left wing talking heads...

Didn't say Obama got less time. I just said Romney always wanted the last word and interjected the moderator more often.
 
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