Originally Posted by rivrrat

Perhaps you should tell HER that more often.

Too many women focus on looks. While they don't want to be desired soley for their looks, and I'm sure they feel that their partners are with them for more than looks, they still seem to think that looks alone would tear their partner away from them AND they unnecessarily harp on their own looks. It's just this weird vicious, hypocritical cycle.

Try this... next time she catches you admiring a nice "rack", mention something about the women with said rack being unable to comprehend basic literature or something. Or, being unable to have an intelligent conversation. Let her know that while you are able to recognize physical beauty in others (and there's nothing wrong with that) that you require more to stimulate you. See how she reacts then.

Something like... "I bet all of brains are in bra." Or, "Her bra size is probably higher than her IQ." "Somehow I'm doubting I could have a 5 minute convo with her that didn't include discussion of hair styles".

Eh... I dunno. I just think maybe if you downplay the woman's looks and highlight the fact that it takes much more to make you happy, it'll help.